Teens are at a time in their lives when they are trying to break away
and be independent from their parents. When a parent has cancer,
breaking away can be hard for them to do. They may become angry, act
out, or get into trouble.
Try to get your teens to talk about
their feelings. Tell them as much as they want to know about your
cancer. Ask them for their opinions and, if possible, let them help you
make decisions.
Teens may want to talk with other people in their
lives. Friends can be a great source of support, especially those who
also have serious illness in their family. Other family members,
teachers, coaches, and spiritual leaders can also help. Encourage your
teenage children to talk about their fears and feelings with people they
trust and feel close to. Some towns even have support groups for teens
whose parents have cancer. Also, ask your social worker about Internet
resources for this group. Many have online chats and forums for support.
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