It is important to talk about cancer with your adult children, even
if they get upset or worry about you. Include them when talking about
your treatment. Let them know your thoughts and wishes. They should be
prepared in case you don't recover from your cancer.
Even adult
children worry that their parents will die. When they learn that you
have cancer, adult children may realize how important you are to them.
They may feel guilty if they haven't been close with you. They may feel
bad if they cannot spend a lot of time with you because they live far
away or have other duties. Some of these feelings may make it harder to
talk to your adult children. If you have trouble talking with your adult
children, ask your doctor or nurse to suggest a counselor you can all
talk with.
Make the most of the time you have with your adult
children. Talk about how much you mean to each other. Express all your
feelings--not just love but also anxiety, sadness, and anger. Don't
worry about saying the wrong thing. It's better to share your feelings
rather than hide them.
"One who conceals grief finds no remedy for it."
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